Here's a question:
I didn't realize that our bodies derive all those benefits from a good laugh. Yes, I've heard it said that laughter is the best medicine, but not in specific terms like the ones above. (By the way, I got this from an online newsletter called Worthy Briefs.)
I did a bit of Googling and came across an interesting article, "Laughter Does A Body Good". It expands on the same topic. Now, I understand why happy people look more radiant and younger than a sourpuss of the same age.
"A cheerful heart is good medicine," according to Proverbs 17:22. "...but a crushed spirit dries up the bones." See, even the Bible talks about it.
Laughter is not only good for the body. It is good for relationships too. I agree. I know that firsthand. Humour is a vital part of my family. My home growing up was marked with laughter, my parents being the laughingest ones. My Mom is already 82 but she still has that same hearty laughter. She looks 62.
In our extended family gatherings, we laugh a lot. My parents' humour has certainly trickled down to the generation of my children and their cousins. What a blessing! In some families, gatherings and reunions almost always cause old grudges to surface, fighting to ensue, ugly dramas to unfold... I hope we never have any of that.
My best friendships are all characterized by good-natured humour too. I have very funny friends. We share a great sense of humour. I'm usually the "laugh-er". In company, you won't hear me say a joke as much as you will hear me laugh at one. It's because I laugh easily. If I ever say a joke, I would be laughing before I get to the punchline. Often I laugh more than anyone in a group. Sometimes, it's the joke. Sometimes, it's the person. Sometimes, it's what goes on in my imagination. Sometimes, it's just habit.
I laugh at corny jokes. I laugh at silly commercials. I even laugh alone. When I'm by myself and I remember the silly things I say and do, I laugh. Ha ha ha! I'm so funny! I say to myself. If nothing else will make me laugh, I laugh at ME. I buy my own jokes.
This is not to say I laugh at everything funny by other people's standard. I find some popular TV sitcoms offensive and so un-funny. I prefer humour that I can enjoy with my 11-year-old. Laughter is good for the body, but it shouldn't be harmful to the mind and soul. That's my personal opinion.
I also believe that humour requires sensitivity especially when it involves other people. Funny isn't fun if it's hurting someone. That's mean!
One thing that really annoys me at home is when one of my boys is having a good laugh at the expense of another. "Don't embarrass your brother in public," I'd say to one. Or, "If you're the only one laughing and your brother is crying, that's not fun!"
They say children laugh 300 to 400 times a day while adults laugh only a mere 15! This might be true. Maybe we adults should hang around with children more and let their laughter rub off on us. My kids laugh a lot, which makes me laugh, that makes them laugh... Often, I'm the one they are laughing at. Ask them.
Whatever, I have only two ground rules -- Keep it clean. Don't be mean.